Are you feeling overwhelmed by life's challenges? Struggling with anxiety, depression, or other emotional issues? Individual counselling can be a powerful tool to help you navigate through difficult times and achieve personal growth. In this blog, we'll explore the numerous benefits of individual counselling and how it can positively impact your life.

Life is a journey filled with highs and lows, triumphs and challenges. It is during these difficult times that our resilience is truly put to the test. But what if I told you that there is a key ingredient that can help you navigate through life’s storms with unwavering strength and hope? Welcome to Floodgate Coaching, Counselling and Consulting, where we understand the profound connection between personal meaning and resilience. In this blog, I will delve into the transformative power of meaning and how it can guide you toward a life filled with mental, emotional, and spiritual wellness. So, let’s embark on this enlightening journey together.

In our fast-paced world, mental well-being is of utmost importance. Just like physical health, our mental health requires attention and care. At Floodgate Coaching, Counselling, and Consulting, we understand the intricacies of mental health and its impact on our lives. If you’ve ever wondered about the state of your mental well-being or questioned whether certain disruptions are normal or require professional intervention, this blog is here to guide you. Let’s delve into the realm of mental health and explore how you can find the support you need.

We often assume that communication with our spouse and other family members should be easy and effortless because we have spent a lot of time with them. But we can be surprised and annoyed when they misunderstand what we’re talking about. Blaming the other person is tempting, but the problem also begins with us. It may be difficult to eliminate communication “bad habits” completely, but being aware of our behaviour can help.

Defining awesome,

“Awesome” is almost always linked to strong positive emotions. A simple definition of awesome: inspiring awe or admiration, or wonder.

Imagine you are walking through the woods and come across a bear. Immediately, your body recognizes this as potential threat and activates the nervous system, releasing a rush of stress hormones, cortisol and epinephrine (adrenalin). These hormones are what give us extra strength, energy, focus and speed to keep ourselves safe from the threat. The heart pounds faster, muscles tighten, blood pressure rises, breath quickens, and senses become sharper as the body prepares to defend/ protect itself against the threat. This is the fight /flight response. This is natural and good when facing a physical threat because it is self-protective.

After the bear walks away and the threat is gone, the body seeks to regain a sense of calm. You may notice your body starts to shake. This is an involuntary response that moves the stress hormones from the nervous system so they can be processed and expelled from the body. Slowly, the shaking decreases and the body begins to return to its homeostatic state. Involuntary shaking is most common following sudden, high intensity events such as encountering the bear, a car accident (or near miss), assaults, etc.

I’m Becky Hills, the proud owner of Floodgate Coaching, Counselling and Consulting. I look forward to sharing my story. I hope that you will enjoy getting to know me better.

When I started my private coaching/counselling practice, I was clear on my goal. “To support others in become their best selves, to embrace their awesomeness, so that they can live authentically with meaning and purpose and break through the barriers that are keeping them from living in the fullness of their potential.” I want to see people be able to confidently stand and say “I am Awesome!” and I want them to mean it, to know it, to embody it. I want everyone who works with me to feel it to the deepest part of their soul.

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